How do I deal with the fear & mistrust of myself (and my future)?

I'm a single 24 yr old woman & one day I go this fear that I'm gonna turn into some psycho or a homo (mainly the homo part) & end up in hell. This has been bothering me & got me terrified. My voice (to me) sounds manly, I don't dress womanly (because I fear being noticed), & I fear men & still isn't into dating. Maybe it's just (media) peer pressure that all women should be dating.